Thursday, June 11, 2009

for someone special...

This is about a woman to whom I owe my very existence.  I have never valued her so much or missed her so much as I do today when I realise how much she did for me, how much I owe to her, how much she slogged to make me comfortable and how much she loved me.The strength of education and self dependance that she has given me helps me survive and take on the world each day. In sad moments this is the only word that comes on my lips...yes its noone else but Maa....

I call her mummy and today the only interaction that we have is through brief telephonic conversations though I live half a kilometre away!Life has really strange ways... I pass through my own home at times as if it was just another house. The memories of childhood when she used to go out of the way (in a conservative) to ensure we wore the dresses we wanted to, ate the food we wanted, that our birthdays were celebrated and we scored well in studies. I feel guilty today to have declined her requests of helping her out with small chores and for arguing and complaining about irrelevant things.

After a certain period of time a woman becomes the care giver of the family and noone realises she also wants to be loved and cared and cherished and appreciated..I realise this today when I have reached this side of womanhood and yearn to be taken care of at times..

Mom you are really a super human and I am sorry for having hurt u at time. But you also know that I love you and miss you lots...

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOM!!!!

2 comments:

Hemal said...

Wow Tanvi, this should ofcourse be an eye opener!

There will come those lovely moments which will remind you of the most loved person in every ones lives. And the only best thing to do is pay the wonder mom a visit and take her out for dinner!

Kanupriya said...

wow, so good to read this post from u. Please ensure that Aunty also reads this, if not on internet, send her a print out of this. I'm sure words of appreciation like these will be the best gift b'day for her.